Hi! It's been another busy and exciting week. We've been planning our 40th wedding anniversary celebration for eight months…and it's finally almost here! Last week, I spent many hours sifting through 40 years of photos. Talk about an emotional rollercoaster ride! I realized again how quickly life flies by. I started with our wedding photos, and then progressed through our honeymoon, first years on the road in ministry, first child, second and third children, graduations, vacations, and our 25th and 35th anniversary celebrations. Millions of miles of memories flooded my mind. I chuckled at the funny photos, cradled the baby photos, and choked back a tear or two when I saw how quickly the children have grown up. I rejoiced at photos when I saw how God provided our first home and a coach for us. I was sobered and also thankful when I saw photos that reminded me of all the trials we've come through. Again, I was reminded of God's faithfulness through it all.
When I finished working on the five big photo boards, I lined them all up and said, "Larry, can you believe that these five boards represent forty years!?!" The perspective of the length of our lives so far seemed shorter than I would have imagined.
As I write, we are rolling down the interstate towards
I'm so thrilled that several of my family members, and all of Larry's family, will be there to celebrate with us. It will be a true memory-making weekend! And…I'm extra-thrilled that my mom, Julie Brooks from Sisseton SD, will also be in attendance. She has been my friend, counselor, mentor, prayer warrior, and encourager, just to name a few of the roles she has played in my life. She will turn 90 years old next week, on November 16. What a joy and honor to have had her all through my younger years, and 40 years of my marriage as well. Every moment with her is a joy! She's truly the most positive person I have ever met. She is upbeat and full of fun and humor. And, she can still bake the most delicious caramel rolls and complete home-cooked meals. She is amazing!
Well, be sure and join us next week on this update, as we will share some photos from our 40th celebration. If you have family or friends that know us, invite them to click on and view the photos as well.
And since it is our anniversary celebration weekend, I am including below a sweet response from children when asked the question, "What is love?" I hope it will touch your heart the way it did mine. Enjoy!
What is love?
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." Rebecca- age 8
"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4
"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." Karl - age 5
"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs." Chrissy -age 6
"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." Terri - age 4
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." Danny - age 7
"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss." Emily - age 8
"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate." Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday." Noelle - age 7
"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." Cindy - age 8
"My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." Clare - age 6
"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken." Elaine-age 5
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." Chris - age 7
"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." Mary Ann - age 4
"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." Lauren - age 4
"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (What an imagination!) Karen - age 7
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." Mark - age 6
"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." Jessica - age 8
And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry."
Recipe of the Week
Frosted Pumpkin Cranberry Bars
1 ½ c. all-purpose flour
1 ½ c. sugar
2 tsp. baking powder
2 tsp. ground cinnamon
1 tsp. baking soda
½ tsp. ground ginger
3 eggs
1 can (15 oz) solid-pack pumpkin
½ c. butter (no substitutes), melted
½ c. chopped dried cranberries
Brown Butter Frosting
½ c. butter
4 c. confectioners' sugar
1 tsp. vanilla extract
4-6 Tbsp. milk
In a bowl, combine the first six ingredients. In another bowl, whisk the eggs, pumpkin and butter; stir into dry ingredients until well combined. Stir in cranberries. Spread into a greased 10x15 (jelly roll size) baking pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutes or until a toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean. Cool on a wire rack.
For the frosting, heat the butter in a saucepan over medium heat until golden brown, about seven minutes. Remove from heat; cool for five minutes. Stir in confectioners' sugar, vanilla, and enough milk to achieve spreading consistency. Spread over bars before cutting. Yields about 4 dozen bars.